Again and yet again

It has always been this cycle in life. 

Someone enters our lives, becomes someone so important that you would never thought of them leaving. Then, a somewhat mysterious force pulled them away and it seemed like they never existed in the first place. Everything goes back to the way it was. But deep inside, we know that something, or rather someone, is missing from our lives. That feeling hurts. 

Time passes by and somehow the "holes" seem to be filled up by themselves. 

We thought that this would be the end of all these shitty stuff. Yet, we are so wrong again. 

Someone else enters our lives once again and the same old shit happens.

After a few cycles of experiencing the same shit, we start to ask ourselves questions. 

Does the problem lie with me? Am I such a bad person to be with? Was I too much? Where did I go wrong? When will I ever meet someone who will stay for good? 

The strange thing is, we never blame ourselves and take responsibility for it. 

I guess, this is why the cycle continues and people never stay for long. 

Solution: 

Change yourself accordingly,

Be understanding,

Be sensitive,

Be more open-minded,

Promote good communication,

Be compromising,

Have more confidence,

Know your priorities,

Plan ahead,

Be smart,

Appreciate every moment.

Don't be an asshole, period. 

=) 

As long as you understand and apply all of the above solutions, this cycle will cease to exist.