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How Have You Lived Your Dash?

I just came by Adam Khoo's Blog. His latest post is on a powerful and meaningful song , ' Dash '. The ‘Dash’ was originally a poem written by Linda Ellis and it has been an inspiration to millions around the world, including myself. The song makes us realise that the day we complete our journey in life, two dates would be inscribed on our tombstone, the year of birth and the year of death. In the middle of both these dates, is a short dash '-'. It represent all that we have done during the time that we are alive. It makes us reflect how how we have lived our 'dash'. As you play the youtube video above, you may like to read the lyrics of the song below. " There was a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend.
He read the dates on her tombstone from the beginning…to the end. He noted first came the date of her birth and spoke the following date with tears, but he said what mattered most of all was the dash between those years. For that dash sta
Hello everybody, Yeah, I know. It've been a long time since I've last posted. I had been very busy with stuffs lately. Just came back from badminton and will be going off for Dentist appointment then to Lido Cineplex for Movie with the people from AKLTG (: I'm seriously feeling so tired now. Just posting a short post to keep this blog alive. Signing off.
Hello everybody, I'm back from the camp. I left the camp early for home due to sick. I fell terribly sick and couldn't continue it further. Right now as I'm updating this website, I am feeling faint. There's badminton training tomorrow. (: I got to make myself feeling better. Sorry for not being able to update today. Signing off, ALVARO方振宇 I want to play a game.
Hello everybody! It turn out to be just some misunderstanding (: Alright then. Nothing is wrong now yeahs. So don't worry. We'll find a win-win outcome. Don't trouble me. Or something will trouble. And I know you won't like it. (: sighing off. I just don't like your attitude. It sucks.
Hello everybody, I'm back posting. Today's post is going to get somehow personal, as I feel the need to share with you people. Don't mind yeahs. " Skills aren't everything. Your character is so much more important. Without a good character, your skills are just plain worthless. Skills will be just skills. You're disgusting. I'm sorry to say that, but seriously you are disgusting. This shouldn't be the way how a true sportsman play his game. You don't respect your opponent at all. " Listen, You may play the game well. However your character and your attitude sucks. This is why you made Badminton just seems to be rubbish when you play it. I admire your skills. But your character totally grossed me out. Unless you start thinking about this seriously, and change. You won't make far in anything in your life. I hope you understand my point . " I'm not going to state any names and start pointing fingers around. But I&

Art Of Appreciation

Hello everybody, Now, You must be wondering why am i still back here after a post yeah? Well, Right now I'm am going to pour out some of the thoughts I've felt for the past few days. Over the pass few days, I've reflected over many families scenarios. It's really very sad to see how family break apart. I've even visited the HSA Hospice. A hospice is a type of hospital care center whom the patients there are all left with less than a year or so to live. I was told that some of them there, don't even know that they are terminally ill and only left with months to live. That is indeed very sad to hear of. You see, Life is such a strange thing. It is only until the last moment and period of our life then we will start to notice the importance of the people around. It is only then we start worrying about the things around us. It is only then, we will finally start to regret all the things we have been doing. Think about it. We seriously need to start appreciating ever
Dear friends, Sorry that I haven't been posting for a few days. I had been rather busy. Anyway, I'm went to Suntec City just now. I saw a book that was on NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) , it costs $ 49.90 . Of course, as a student, I wasn't able to afford it. I just browse it through. After reading it through and found somethings that sounded very interesting to me. I thought i should share it with you readers. The part I'm going to share today is a small part on Building Rapport. Building Rapport. If you want to create rapport with someone, you must create it from the point of respect and genuine need to understand them and always seek win-win outcomes. When you feel congruent with your outcomes , identity , values and beliefs , then your behavior will follow naturally . M atching & M irroring . Have you ever watched two people communicating deeply? If they are both fully engaged in the conversation, they will unconsciously copy each others body posture

Turning negative remarks into strength

Greetings everybody , I'm back to posting. Let me share you guys something. After putting down my goals on my blog, I often receive negative feedback and comments from many of my friends. Those comments seriously can pull you down all the way if you don't handle with it properly. Their comments... Firstly they can be sarcastic when giving their comments, talking about how much they believe in you, how much they admire your determination. They can also be very straight-forwarded and crude in their remarks, talking about how lousy you are. " You'll never archieve that. " Just keep one thing in mind. They are just nobody to judge you. Normally what I usually do is, I would look back at them with those eyes of the tiger and smile. " I will prove you wrong. " " We'll see about that. " When we archieve our goals, we'll just turn back and laugh at their foolishness. In the end we'll still prove them wrong. We can do it. We are champion

Goals & Taking Action.

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Hello readers! I'm back to post on this beautiful blog. Today, I won't be ready to teach you guys a new thing yet. A series of event just happened today that led me to thinking that my goal is most important. Today will just be a small reflection on my life. Read on and feel free to comment on it. (: It was just months ago that i attend the camp as a participant for the third time. I attend the camp 6 years ago twice, but I didn't changed much. During the camp, i began to feel aware of all the wrong doings that I've done in my life and regretted. At that point of time, I was very determined to go out there and get my goals. However, I knew that the determination would soon run off and I would be still be the same as I first started. To start off first, I sent an email to the the people there. I wanted to be coach there and help other children like me. Most of all, I wanted to learn more as I teach. With that I sent an email to them. It is writen below: -----------------

Thoughts leads to Destiny

Hello readers, I just created this blog. I find the need to start all over as a new person, a new blog, a new set of destiny. I strongly believe that the thoughts that are in our head, will strongly impact on our lifes and then our destiny. I would like to turn this blog, this space into a place when i can share my point of views on life and in anything with readers. Readers can too, leave a comment behind for me. __________________________________________ Alright, Let's get started with today's post. " Control our thoughts, Master our destiny " that's what i always tell myself, and with that i control my thoughts, emotions and etc. Everytime, when we manage to control our thoughts, we'll be able to control our emotions. Let me share with you a cycle that I've learnt in short. Thought lead to Emotions Emotions lead to Action Actions leads to Habit Habit becomes your Character Character determines Destiny In conclusion, The root of everything lies wit