Thoughts leads to Destiny

Hello readers,


I just created this blog.
I find the need to start all over as a new person, a new blog, a new set of destiny. I strongly believe that the thoughts that are in our head, will strongly impact on our lifes and then our destiny.
I would like to turn this blog, this space into a place when i can share my point of views on life and in anything with readers. Readers can too, leave a comment behind for me.

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Alright,
Let's get started with today's post.

"Control our thoughts, Master our destiny" that's what i always tell myself, and with that i control my thoughts, emotions and etc.

Everytime, when we manage to control our thoughts, we'll be able to control our emotions.
Let me share with you a cycle that I've learnt in short.

Thought lead to Emotions
Emotions lead to Action
Actions leads to Habit
Habit becomes your Character
Character determines Destiny

In conclusion,
The root of everything lies within your thoughts.

I myself had once too, sinked in the wrong type of thoughts in my mind, building a not so good character in me. However, upon once I knew about this cycle, I started to take actions and took much notice to the words I say to myself.
I used to a very emotional guy, always getting worked up or depressed by small matters. I even slit my wrist and arm, I've done many silly things that I could have killed myself. I almost ended my life.

Finally, I came to realised that the words I've been using at myself, saying to myself was all negative and harmful. The things that I've done to hurt myself, wasn't at all beneficial to solving the problem but instead simply made it worst.
I understand the theory of thoughts leading to destiny and therefore I can control my emotions better now.
Now, I would be proud to say that I can control my thoughts better than before, which also means that my emotions can be controlled better.

Just to add on, it've been getting more and more common for secondary school students to do silly stuffs to hurt themselves or end their lifes.
I once search for a victim's blog after i saw the report on newspaper and I read her blog entries. Almost all of her entries were negative and sad to read. The words that we post on our blogs, are actually parts and parcels of the words we tell ourselves. With negatives thoughts, we'll end up doing negatives action. I truly hope that more students will come to realise this, that they have a choice of becoming who they are today. They all have a choice of what words they say to themselves. I therefore conclude this with, choice.
Everyone are given a choice on how to lead their life, how they would like to think about themselves. Everything lies within you. It's a matter of how well you know yourself and what do you really want for yourself.


Alright, so now that you know this stuff and know more about yourself. How can you improve yourself ?

Take note of the words you tell yourself in your mind; Whatever we put into our minds, in whatever way, will influence our actions. That will lead to our habits and character, then to our destiny.
I notice a trend in people who tends to be emotional, they would tend to say the word,' Why?' to themselves often. ' Why ' is a negative word to use.

You see,
When we ask ourselves the word ,' Why ', we'll tend to focus on our problem, mistakes and etc. This will just bring our whole emotion state down! There's no point of it !

So, instead of asking the word, ' Why ', we can use the word ,' How ' .
"How can we solve the question?"
"How can I improve on the matter?"
This way, we'll be focusing on how we can solve the problem instead of going back and thinking about how is there a problem.
I hope you understand what I'm saying.

These are just a few stuffs of things and theory that I've learnt.



You can make the choice to apply these stuffs.
It's your life. Your choice.


The most decisive actions of our life ... are most often unconsidered actions.
Decide wisely (:




That's all about the thoughts leading to destiny.
I'll have to go add stuffs to my blog.

Take care everybody.
I truly hope that this post will help you readers out there somehow (:






Zhenyu